Heart Surgery Update: The Pre-Op Appointment

We interrupt our backlog of holiday season posts to bring you this message about Amelia's upcoming heart surgery.

Last Monday, we took Amelia to her pre-op appointment, and spent about three and a half hours at MGH, talking to assorted people.  The whole thing was a little overwhelming, and a lot exhausting (for us and Amelia), but we came away from it feeling better prepared.

It was great to be able to speak with both the surgeon and the anesthesiologist.  Each explained what he would be doing on the day of Amelia's surgery so that we would know what to expect.  On the day of the surgery, we'll report to MGH at 6:00 AM, and they should put her under around 7:30 or so.  The actual surgery will begin around 8:30 or 9:00, and should be completed by noon.  (While it's amazing that they can repair a heart in a matter of a few hours, I have a feeling that those hours are going to be agonizingly slow in passing...)  She'll be on bypass and intubated during the surgery, and they'll keep her sedated for a few hours afterwards.  I found the anesthesiologist's description of the various IVs and catheters that they'll place to be particularly helpful in preparing myself for what Amelia will look like post-surgery.  (Will it still make me cry?  Probably.  But at least I know what's coming.) 

The surgeon also was very honest with us, which I appreciated.  He walked us through the potential complications, like infection, etc., and explained that there is a small chance (less than five percent) that the sinus node, which is the natural pacemaker tissue in the heart and is very close to where Amelia's defect is located, could be affected during the course of the surgery.  If that were to happen, she would need to have an artificial pacemaker.  Odds are, however, that Amelia will be completely fine after this surgery.  Her surgeon has been performing these kinds of operations for about thirty years and so this is pretty routine for him, which is encouraging.

In addition to the surgeon and anesthesiologist, we also talked to a cardiology PA, who walked us through the logistics of the day of surgery, a child life specialist, who will be on hand to help put Amelia at ease before and after the surgery, and a woman from social services (I guess to ensure that she has a safe environment to continue recovering after she's released from the hospital).  Amelia also had to have a chest x-ray (which she handled beautifully) and a blood draw (which she did not handle very well).  Definitely a long day! 

We got the results of Amelia's bloodwork at the end of last week, and everything looked good.  Now, all we have to do is keep her healthy between now and then, which is easier said than done!  She actually came down with a cold in the middle of last week (undoubtedly from something she touched while at MGH), but is just about over it.  If she has anything more than a runny nose leading up to her surgery, it will be rescheduled.  Not the worst thing in the world, but we've gotten to the point where we just want to get it over with, so fingers crossed that she stays healthy.

In just three weeks, Amelia's surgery will be over and she should be on the road to recovery! 

Our little cardiac patient, three weeks pre-surgery

Heart Surgery Update

Last Thursday, I got a call from Amelia's cardiologist to schedule her heart surgery.  (I know, it has taken me a while to get this update posted... Still learning how to manage this blogging thing!) 

Tangent: I was surprised and impressed to hear back from her so quickly, considering that this is a non-emergent procedure.  I was also impressed that the other cardiologist we've spoken with, the cardiac MRI specialist who was present for her MRI on Tuesday, came to speak with me not once, but twice, while I was at the hospital with Amelia, to discuss what they saw and to answer any questions.  I know these doctors are busy people, so it's nice that they've been as responsive and concerned as they have been.

Anyway, the phone call.  Amelia's cardiologists at MGH had consulted with some cardiologists at Children's and the cardiac surgeon who will be performing the surgery (who is also at Children's), and all agreed that she is a great candidate for surgical repair, so she was calling to schedule the surgery.  We had two dates to choose between: January 7th (with a pre-op evaluation on December 17th) or Feburary 4th (with a pre-op evaluation on January 7th).  Neither date is compromised by Amelia's tonsillectomy (which is scheduled for a week from today...), since a four-week recovery period is all that is necessary.  At the pre-op evaluation, we'll get to review the images and talk to the surgeon and the anesthesiologist.  Also, Amelia will have to undergo some bloodwork.  (Given her hysterics-inducing fear of needles, that should be "fun.")  I told the cardiologist that we would discuss the dates and get back to her.

After some back and forth over the dates – Better that she doesn't go back to school after Christmas to decrease the likelihood of catching a cold?  Better to go with the February date so that part of her recovery time coincides with school vacation week? – we decided to go with the later date, to give Amelia's little body some extra time to recover in between surgeries.  (Apologies in advance to my mom, who is already flying to New York for Christmas, and will likely end up flying back to Colorado in January and then back to Boston in February to help us out.)

So Amelia is scheduled to undergo heart surgery on February 4th. 

As I mentioned, the surgeon is at Children's, but the surgery will take place at MGH.  Apparently MGH does a lot of consulting with Children's, and so I'm not sure if this is per their normal course of business, or if this is because I was put in touch with the chair of the cardiology department at Children's through a very well-connected partner at my firm.  In any case, I am glad that she'll have a surgeon from the #1 ranked pediatric heart program in the country.  Can't do better than that, right?

Having a concrete date is at once a source of peace and a source of anxiety.  I am glad that we have the surgery calendared and that this will all be behind us in a few months, but I know that the time between now and February 4th is going to fly...

In the meantime (but probably after the tonsillectomy!), we'll need to prepare Amelia for what she's going to go through.  Does anyone know someone whose child has undergone heart surgery?  If so, I would love to chat with them.  I think the physiology won't actually be too hard to explain – she has a hole in her heart that the doctors need to fix – but I'm not sure how to explain how she's going to feel after the surgery (without scaring her), or the necessity of taking it easy (not a four-year-old's strong suit) for what could be several weeks while she's recovering.  Any suggestions?  While shopping for Christmas gifts online, I stumbled across this adorable stuffed heart, and think we absolutely HAVE to get it for Amelia. 

This has to be the best ever get-well-soon-gift for a kid having heart surgery, right?

Well, that's it for now with respect to Amelia's heart, and we likely won't have more news on this front until her pre-op assessment in January.  I'll try to post about some more cheerful topics between now and then.  With Chad's family in town for Thanksgiving and plans to spend Christmas with mine in upstate New York, that shouldn't be too difficult!